[单项选择]Parents who have an adopted child want to know（） A. how to hide the fact that he or she is adopted B. when the child was born exactly C. whether they should tell the child that he or she is adopted D. if the child has certain disease
[单项选择]It is the bride's parents who normally have to ______. A. make all the arrangements for the wedding B. provide hospitality for the people attending C. decide who shall be invited D. pay all the expenses involved
[单项选择]Children (who) form a positive self-concept are more assertive, optimistic, (confidence), and sociable (than those) who (do not). A. who B. confidence C. than those D. do not
[填空题]Children model themselves largely on their parents. They do so
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through identification. Children identify with a parent when they believe they have the qualities and feelings that are
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of that parent. The things parents do and say—and the way they do and say to them—
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strongly influence a child"s behavior. However, parents must consistently
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like the type of person they want their children to become.
A parent"s actions also affect the self-image that a child forms through identification. Children who see mainly positive qualities in their parents will likely learn to see themselves in a positive way. Children who
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chiefly negative qualities in their parents will have difficulty seeing positive qualifies in themselves. Children may modify their self-image, however, as they become increasingly influenced by peer groups"
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before they reach 13.
Isolated events, even dramatic ones, do not necessarily have a
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effect on a child"s behavior. Children interpret such events according to their
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attitudes and previous training. Children who know they are loved can, for example, accept the divorce of their parents or a parent"s early
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. But if children feel unloved, they may interpret such events as a sign of
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or punishment.
A. behave B. established C. standards D. decline
E. characteristics F. acceptance G. rejection H. observe
I. therefore J. definite K. departure L. permanent
M. engagement N. mainly O. meanwhile
